The General Manager of the health club I work at, Wisconsin Athletic Club - North Shore, gave us a personal development piece about a month ago. He has been a great mentor for me and shares many of the same values and passions I have. These rules are from "A Better Way to Live" by Og Mandino. Living by these rules can help you keep your life in balance and lead you to be more positive, happier, and more fulfilled.
Rule #1: Count your blessings
Rule #2: Today, and every day, deliver more than you are getting paid to do.
Rule #3: Whenever you make a mistake or get knocked down by life, don’t look back at it too long.
Rule #4: Always reward your long hours of labor and toil in the very best way, surrounded by your family.
Rule #5: Build this day on a foundation of pleasant thoughts.
Rule #6: Let your actions always speak for you, but be forever on guard against the terrible traps of false pride and conceit that can halt your progress.
Rule #7: Each day is a special gift from God, and while life may not always be fair, you must never allow the pains, hurdles and handicaps of the moment to poison your attitude and plan for yourself and your future.
Rule #8: Never again clutter your days and nights with so many menial and unimportant things that you have no time to accept a real challenge when it come along.
Rule #9: Live this day as if it will be your last.
Rule #10: Beginning today, treat everyone you meet, friend or foe, loved one your stranger, as if they were going to be dead at midnight.
Rule #11: Laugh at yourself and at life.
Rule #12: Never neglect the little things.
Rule #13: Welcome every morning with a smile.
Rule #14: You will achieve your grand dream, a day at a time, so set goals for each day.
Rule #15: Never allow anyone to rain on your parade and thus cast gloom and defeat on the entire day.
Rule #16: Search for the seed of good in every adversity.
Rule #17: Realize that true happiness lies within you.
As I sit here typing this I have the rules taped right above my computer as a daily reference. I wish you all the best in applying these rules to your life!